Friday, January 13, 2006

CASE # 33: NORMA JEAN + GEORGE PT. 2



SUBMITTED BY: NORMA JEAN
LENGTH OF RELATIONSHIP: SEE CASE # 3


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DATE: September 27th, 2005
FROM: NORMA JEAN
TO: GEORGE
SUBJECT: Are you done?


i'd like to meet up this week for a drink or dinner...

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DATE: September 27th, 2005
FROM: GEORGE
TO: NORMA JEAN
SUBJECT: re: Are you done?


still working away...

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DATE: September 27th, 2005
FROM: NORMA JEAN
TO: GEORGE
SUBJECT: re: Are you done?


... i see.
well listen, i have been thinking and i need to get some stuff of my chest. the thing between you and S**** bothers me. i'm unsure if it's over between you two. is it over? have you ended it? i'm not sure i can be with you again with a clear conscience unless i know it's been dealt with - officially. also, i need to know where we stand. are we dating? is it just sex to you? is it going somewhere? i know you hate these questions and i hate asking them, but i have to because you don't share this crap with me. take some time to think about it and get back to me when you are all finished the magazine. again, i'm sorry to have to ask, but you know me...

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DATE: September 27th, 2005
FROM: NORMA JEAN
TO: GEORGE
SUBJECT: re: Are you done?


coz... you know, the thing is if you aren't finished with S**** and you don't want to date me (in the normal sense, A.K.A. be my boyfriend) then...i don't see the point in the long run. i am not getting any younger and i am tired of the silly games. i want to settle down (not grow old & die - just have a loving partner to count on) and i'd prefer to do that with you, but if you don't want that too or still - then what is the point? sigh...

i just got back from the gym and thought of that to say while i was there. i just want some consistency in my life. everything is up in the air in my life and i want something to be decided and you and i have been going around on this merry-go-round for 3 years and... i want more. i need more. so, i think i am done whining and freaking you out... i don't mean to be a bummer or take the fun out of anything. in fact, i think things would be MORE fun for us if we were committed- we could both relax and...well, i don't know... i just think it would be better. this is what i want, nothing has changed. i just need to know if you're on board this time or now, coz if not, then... you should stick with S****,
i guess and cut me loose. there. done.

Ciao,
NJ.

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DATE: September 28th, 2005
FROM: GEORGE
TO: NORMA JEAN
SUBJECT: re: re: Are you done?


okay Norma Jean... ive never played silly little games or led you on. im always going to be this way and i suggest moving on... really, you deserve that.

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DATE: September 28th, 2005
FROM: NORMA JEAN
TO: GEORGE
SUBJECT: re: re: Are you done?


you know, i wasn't angry when i wrote what i had to say to you, but i am now. this pretending not to hear me when i say i am NOT looking for casual sex ONLY - that i want a real relationship - that you shouldn't call me for just sex because i want more than that and then when you don't call i get pissed off and scream at you the next time you come sniffing around... you don't think all of that is a game?

george, you DO play games and you DO lead me on and you HAVE led me on for three years! i have never lied to you about my intentions, about what i want, about what it means to me when we are together. can you say the same? perhaps you can if you've been telling yourself the same lie over and over again all these years to rid yourself of the guilt. i suppose i have been lying to myself all these years: that you really do care about me, that you love me, and that you simply are afraid, but eventually you will open up and make room for me. i figured this was true because it's been so long... it never occurred to me that you thought i was stupid enough to let you take advantage of me over and over again. man, i am gullible!

you're correct when you say i do deserve better. but, have you honestly just figured this out now? i'm really glad i brought this up now rather than a few months down the road. because, if i had waited i would have missed the opportunity that has presented itself to me - that is an open, romantic, fearless, 24-year old individual who HELD MY HAND (outside in public for ALL to see) while he walked me home the first night we met - a person interested in getting to know me - not someone only looking to sleep with me. refreshing, isn't it?

i think so... okay. so, there. we figured it all out. i am moving on and you are going to stay stuck in your same-old, boring, unfulfilling, safe patterns until who knows when... now don't forget: when you get lonely or horny, don't call me up because i am the girl that deserves more - a girl that deserves a real relationship. you said it yourself.

Norma Jean

7 Comments:

Anonymous American Girl (case #23) said...

DAMN STRAIGHT YOU DESERVE MORE!! Honey, I can TOTALLY understand why it took you so long to realize that and I can TOTALLY understand how AWESOME you must feel while at the same time there may be a tiny nagging bug sittin' on your shoulder tellin' you to call him back and try to at least be friends. DON'T EVER CALL HIM OR CONTACT HIM EVER AGAIN!!! He isn't worth your next breath. GOOD JOB in losing 150 + lbs of dead weight.

10:19 PM, January 23, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

It took you three years to figure out that you deserve something better? You'll email him again.

2:01 PM, January 25, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Just remember to hang up the next time he calls for a blowjob.

10:11 PM, February 16, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Anonymous said...

"It took you three years to figure out that you deserve something better? You'll email him again."

I say bite me. I haven't called him. He's called me. As usual. Why? Cause he's a pathetic pussy, just like you.

Norma Jean

8:02 PM, February 23, 2006  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You tell that jackass commentor, Norma Jean!!! By the way, congratulations on getting rid of the bastard (not the commentor, the ex); I hope your new potential relationship goes well, and if not, then at least you're still on your way to better days. Best of luck!

11:04 PM, May 01, 2006  
Blogger Grifter9931 said...

What "grown-up" gets led on for three years?

2:44 AM, June 05, 2007  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Is this a girl support group or what? These people giving you all this "support" are not helping if they congratulate you for bad decisions that amount to taking the easy way out.

You need to realize that it's YOU keeping this thing going, so if YOU want out then YOU are going to have to leave.

As for him calling you, stop answering. Seriously. Don't just SAY you won't. Don't. Pick. Up. Pretend he never called. He doesn't exist. He's a memory - one you should never forget (you can't learn from it if you forget) - and that's all.

That includes no more posting parts 3, 4, and 5 on here. Just stop.

11:32 PM, July 14, 2007  

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